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Even the most well-behaved children will, at times, challenge you. The key to coping gracefully with behavioral problems is preparation. In this section, get tips for coping with one of the most common and frustrating of all behavioral problems: temper tantrums.
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Because young children don’t yet have the words to express their anger and frustration, it’s common for them to lash out violently when they become upset. It’s important not to take their anger personally, even if it seems to be directed at you. Here are three simple steps for easing your child’s frustration:
As your youngster works on developing his or her tolerance levels, be careful to avoid situations which trigger their outbursts. Limit their exposure to limits of time you know they can handle.
When your child does act out, reprimand them sternly enough that they know it’s unacceptable. Be careful to critique only their reaction to their emotion and not the emotions themselves. Then, provide an alternative method of expression, such as encouraging him or her to say “I’m mad” instead of kicking and screaming.
Children are amazing models of adult behavior. Be sure to keep your own reactions in check when you become frustrated so your youngster has a good example to follow. Also be careful to stay cool and collected when your child throws a tantrum so your reaction doesn’t contradict all the good behavior you’ve taught them.
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