Teens often wait until they are frightened for a friend’s safety before they turn to adults for help.
Here are some useful suggestions from Lisa Damour in the New York Times for what to do when they do come to you.
Source: When Your Child's Friend Is in Crisis in the New York Times
It is clear to me now, two kids and two different experiences later: our babies are born ready. All they need is for us to be ready to listen, and respond.
I had no idea how infuriating the question “how can I help?” would be when there was a sink full of bottles and an empty fridge. Mom friends to the rescue.
Beyond knowing how to handle a tantrum to avoid public embarrassment, we can begin to view them as a valuable opportunity to teach our children life skills.
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